Tuesday, April 8, 2014

The magic of a phone call

After learning the steps in the decision making process in the subject principles of management,  it was the time to actually apply them.
The objective was identified. The alternatives were also explored, which confused me more. But I had to reach some conclusion. What should I do in such a situation? Stay calm and composed and think as a third person. Consider all the situations, and ultimately make a wise decision being practical and not the usual sentimental fool.
I knew all the steps. But I was not able to interpret my impulsive, random emotions. I was very nervous. I pretended to be calm but I was not able to achieve the balance yet.
And all of a sudden, my phone rang. Just looking at it, I had a big smile on my face. My parents kept on asking me about the phone call but I didn't tell them anything. I just went outside and started my conversation. I had told my feelings to my friend in two words and it was enough. My friend straight away called me from Canada. I just poured my heart infront of my friend. I did not keep anything in my mind. We just kept on talking and talking.
This is one of the persons, with whom I share the awesome bond. We can share anything and everything with each other, literally anything and everything.  ;-)
So finally I felt really awesome after the fourty five minute long conversation. We laughed like crazy, and I felt we are really together with each other. I just remembered the old crazy days. I just forgot about the decision making too. :-P
This again strengthened my belief. `Friendship` is the best relationship in this world. It can simplify the most complex of the situations. The warmth and depth of this relationship is very unique. Noone can give you the unconditional love, trust, respect and space that a friend gives without expecting anything in return. It feels great when a friend makes you a priority. A friend is a person who can advice you without being partial. Friendship is the only relationship without any expectation.
 So atleast now, I am able to reach the conclusion for this post if not in my decision making process. Just talk to a friend in the most complex of the situations and you will find the solution easily. This is what I call the magic of a phone call.



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