Memories..

I absolutely have no idea how to begin this post but I just try to jot down some of the best memories of my childhood and teen age.
I really had an awesome childhood. Being the first child in the family I was pampered by everyone. But I consider my teen age as the most beautiful part of my life. The memories of my teen age are most beautiful memories that I cherish.
When I was in twelfth standard, we had human anatomy in detail in biology. We needed practical demonstration for better understanding. But any sort of animal dissection wasn't included in our syllabus. But we decided that we will dissect a frog on our own. Obviously my surgeon dad came to our rescue. Our first challange was to get a frog. My father arranged a frog somehow. I don't know how but my father has a solution to all the problems. After getting the little creature in a tiny box, we decided the place for dissection. It was our terrace. All my friends gathered at my place to participate in the adventure. We bought a dissection box and were thrilled to handle those instruments. But it was my father, who was actually going to dissect the frog. The frog was forced to go in an unconscious state and we started the adventure. My father did his job very skillfully and we were watching the whole procedure very earnestly. We studied the nervous system, digestive system of the amphibians. I still remember holding the flower like tiny pancreas of the frog in my hand. It was a very different experience which taught us many things. The only regret was the tiny creature lost his life in the whole adventure.
Our IIT Mumbai visit during second year of engineering has to be one of the best memories that I cherish. We were quite comfortable with each other and knew each other well by that time. This was my first trip with my friends and the destination itself was one of the best technology institutes in India. Meeting and interacting with  the best innovative minds, experiencing the wonders of technology , exploring some different side of my friends and making some new friends were few of the most cherished and important things about this trip. We got familiar with the brightest minds of this country and got a chance to watch amazing competitions like micromouse and few other robotics events. We also explored the scenic IIT powai campus. My bonds with Amruta, Indu, Pallavi strengthened during this trip.
The Manali trek in the summer vacations after my board exams holds a special place in my heart. This was the longest vacation of my lifetime and this trek was the best part of it. This trek taught me many things. The most important being the group or team spirit. Right from staying in tents to crossing the Biyas river in the chilling cold, each and every memory related to this trek is full of adventure and thrill. It taught me how to mingle with people and stop being the usual shy myself. The train journey from Pune to Delhi was one of the most memorable journies I had till date. We never let the other passengers sleep for two days. I met many different personalities and also learnt how to accommodate in seriously crunch situations. I also got to visit some beautiful places and Manali is one of the places which I admire the most. I am mesmerised by the natural beauty of this place. I loved being very close to nature in these thirteen days.
The next one in the list have to be the nightouts at Maithili's place during our school days. The ARAI tekdi visit with the whole  group, dancing on some random bollywood songs at two in the night or just random talks and laughs with my best buddies, everything is very fresh in my mind as if it happened just few days ago. I still remember eating the apple pudding at twelve in the night and games of badminton at her place.

The rangpachami celebrations at Swapna's place had to be one of the best I ever had.It was super fun.

Our early morning Parvati visits during our summer vacations, those long study sessions with Rati, the only night out with Mugdha at my place, the long swimming sessions at our club followed by some awesome food at some restaurant, watching Bend It Like Beckham at my place with the whole gang are some of the best memories of my teenage. These little things in life make it worth living. I will write a separate post about my college life memories.

Smiles :)

I have been meeting quite a few people these days. I am fond of meeting new people and I always enjoy these experiences. I just try to think what impresses me most when I meet a person. And I immediately get the answer, its their smile :)

I have seen many smiles till date. The real ones, which come from the bottom of someone's heart, some are fake which try to cover up the real feelings, some are very genuine, some are very innocent, some are really infectious, some are enthusiastic, some are wicked, some are trustworthy, some are flirtatious, some are playful.

I met a lovely lady some days back. She must be approximately that of my mothers age. She was dressed in a simple saree. She was very beautiful for her age having flawless complexion. But the thing I distinctly remember about her is her lovely and warm smile.It was a reflection of her warm and pure heart. It created a positive vibe between us. The purpose for which we had met could have really created some awkward moments between us.But we could really have a meaningful conversation after it. And of course, the credit goes to her smile.

Another smile I remember is that of my little cousin. She is the naughtiest person around and the youngest one too.Each time  I ask her to give me a hug, she just gives me an innocent smile and runs away.Her naughty smile can make my day!

The one which I can never forget is that of my grandfather just the day before his sad demise. The smile had a sense of calm and satisfaction to it. He probably knew what was stored in future.

I have a friend whose eyes twinkle when she smiles. The joy she feels lights up her face. I could feel her joy on her wedding day, though her eyes were not twinkling that day. The others I remember are that on the farewell day of my friends,knowing that we won't meet so soon. Driving 15 kms in the hot sun was worth it for that smile. I also remember the one, which my visa interviewer gave me after rejecting my Visa. Her pretty smile surely had the pain that she felt after rejecting my Visa.

Today my colleague cum friend winked and smiled at me while she was counting the number of people in our team. I knew she had something in mind. Her smile told me everything.

When I try to remember my own, I distinctly remember the one which I had after meeting my cousin on Bombay airport. We were just six years old then. But I still remember the curiosity I had about her and of course the smile I had when she came running to hug me. Another ones that make me nostalgic are I had when I held my new born brother in my arms, when I first drove a car, when I got praised for my Pavbhaji which I had cooked for the first time, when I get praised by my manager, when I got my first pay check and the list goes on.

No doubt I adore anyone's smile more than anything else. They can transform a saddest moment into the happiest one. They can turn hatred into love. They bring the sense of positivity. A smile brings a sense of freshness and enthusiasm in the atmosphere. So I end this blog post with a big naughty smile, thinking of  the mischief I have in mind right now :)

The books that made an impact

I was never a book worm kind of person but then I like to read in my leisure time. I feel that I have a different taste.I am not the one who likes to read Harry Potter kind of books. I like the books with an emotional touch.
Here are few books which made an impact on me. They changed my perspective and shaped up my thought process.

We the living :  This is a book by Ayn Rand. The story takes place in the Soviet post revolutionary era. This book has the best characterization. I like the book only if I am able to relate to the characters. The strong central character that of Kira, is the USP of this book. Her journey from being a raw teenager to a strong independent woman has been captured very beautifully. It has a sense of reality to it. It is said to be a book based on Ayn's own life. The sacrifices done by Kira, are described very beautifully keeping her emotions alive.The expression of her sentiments through different incidents is one of the best I have ever read. The incident where Leo leaves her is one of those incidents which you can actually feel.I loved this novel, instead of being a tragic one. All the characters are layered and truly very expressive. The main protagonist - Leo has some gray shades but somewhere you feel that his behavior is fully justified. At the end, I ended up crying and everytime I read this book, I will end up crying every time.

The diary of a young girl : This is one of the books which I read when I was a teenager. Again having a background of world war two, this is a book which inspired me to write my diary and most probably my blog too. The emotions of a teenager are expressed in the most beautiful way in this book. Being a teenager, I was able to relate to it more I guess. The struggle of Frank's family to hide from Nazi government teaches you a lot of things. I realized the quality of life I have and the things I don't need to struggle for. It taught me to value the "freedom" I have. It also taught me to express my mind and heart without having any inhibitions. The amazing way in which this young girl has written her diary is commendable. I now understand many relationships in my life much better than before.

Coma: This book is a medical thriller by Robin Cook. Many people find it very ordinary. I read this book when I was dreaming of a medical career. Again the thing I liked the most is the strong and subtle characterization. The story keeps you hooked till the end. This is one of the best suspense thrillers I have read till date. It changes your perspective towards the most noble profession in this world and shows the other side of it. You can actually feel 'chills running down your spine'.

P.S. I Love You : Well this is a very emotional one. But I liked it again for it's gripping story and the subtle emotions. The journey of Holy from being a depressed, good for nothing girl to a independent free spirited girl touches your heart. And the fact that her lost love gives her this strength is the best thing about it. This novel has taught me to be strong in worst of the situations and look at the brighter side of life.


Little Women: This is story of four sisters and their struggle for the life. The most loved characters from this book have to be that of Joe and Lorrie. The story emphasizes the name 'Little Women' and you go through the lives of these little four sisters. You feel their joy, their sorrow, their insecurities and even their future plans. Your heart stops beating when Joe says 'No' to Lorrie. And you feel that her decision was the most wise one when you read the novel till its end.

Well, these are very few of them but are the ones most loved by me. I ll keep adding to the list.  :)

Changu Lake :)

I was bitten by the 'Travelling' bug for quite some time now. After visiting some awesome places across the world, I was craving to go to Darjeeling. The actual story was,I had gone to Manali after my 10th standard exams and my parents and my kid brother went to Darjeeling and Nepal. I was jealous basically.

So we finally planned it. :) We booked the flight tickets and the hotels.Our travel itinerary was ready. I was really excited. I was finally getting a break from my routine. I was waiting for the day.

We had a flight till Bagdogra and had booked a taxi for the next journey. We started our journey in the booked cab. The roads were dangerous indeed. The journey in the hilly region is one of scariest I ever had. We reached Gangtok somewhere around 8 in the night. The roads in the tiny city were too steep and the countryside was immensely beautiful. The native people were very lovely and warm. We immediately went to sleep after the long, tiring journey.

Next day, we were supposed to visit Changu lake and Nathula pass, a place very close to China border. But we were informed by our hotel manager that due to bad weather conditions, we won't be able to go till Nathula Pass. We were still excited.

Changu lake is a glacial lake in the East Sikkim, some 40 kilometres (25 mi) away from Gangtok at altitude of 3,780 m (12,400 ft). We started our journey in a Jeep with another family. I was sitting on the back seat and was enjoying the picturesque view through the window. But I never knew that this would indeed be the scariest journey of my life. I had visited Badrinath three years back. I thought it was the toughest journey but then it was not.

I was literally counting seconds during that journey from our hotel to Changu lake. I hate to admit this, but these are the only few hours in my life where I felt the fear for my life every second.Our vehicle driver was luckily a very skilled driver. The road was not a tar road. The visibility was almost zero because of the dense fog. And it started raining.
There was a time when we had to take a reverse for making way for a bus.The rear wheels of our jeep were on the edge of the valley.You need stability of  the mind to go through such situations. On our right side was the valley, rather we can call it 'death valley' . It was damn scary. And the worst part was that I was sitting on the right side. Hats off to the Jeep driver and I sincerely thank him for driving so carefully and skillfully to save our souls.

And then after this roller coaster journey, we finally reached the place. We had to rent jackets,boots, gloves and caps to protect ourselves from the chilly wind and cold. We were all decked up and ready for the next journey. We were either needed to rent a Yak or walk through the snow. The oxygen level was low.But we decided that we will walk.

It was one of the best experiences of my life time. After such a scary journey, it was indeed the best feeling in the world. It is a very divine and beautiful place. A lake surrounded with snow capped mountains was a unique sight. The lake is frozen in winter season. We started walking through the snow and soon tiny,fluffy white snow flakes started falling on us. It was the first snow fall I had experienced. The tiny white flakes were entangled in my hair, spread all over my face and I could feel the soft snow melting slowly. I don't have words to describe the feeling. All I can say that it is worth experiencing at least once in your life.

It teaches you to appreciate small beautiful things in this world.

The magic of a phone call

After learning the steps in the decision making process in the subject principles of management,  it was the time to actually apply them.
The objective was identified. The alternatives were also explored, which confused me more. But I had to reach some conclusion. What should I do in such a situation? Stay calm and composed and think as a third person. Consider all the situations, and ultimately make a wise decision being practical and not the usual sentimental fool.
I knew all the steps. But I was not able to interpret my impulsive, random emotions. I was very nervous. I pretended to be calm but I was not able to achieve the balance yet.
And all of a sudden, my phone rang. Just looking at it, I had a big smile on my face. My parents kept on asking me about the phone call but I didn't tell them anything. I just went outside and started my conversation. I had told my feelings to my friend in two words and it was enough. My friend straight away called me from Canada. I just poured my heart infront of my friend. I did not keep anything in my mind. We just kept on talking and talking.
This is one of the persons, with whom I share the awesome bond. We can share anything and everything with each other, literally anything and everything.  ;-)
So finally I felt really awesome after the fourty five minute long conversation. We laughed like crazy, and I felt we are really together with each other. I just remembered the old crazy days. I just forgot about the decision making too. :-P
This again strengthened my belief. `Friendship` is the best relationship in this world. It can simplify the most complex of the situations. The warmth and depth of this relationship is very unique. Noone can give you the unconditional love, trust, respect and space that a friend gives without expecting anything in return. It feels great when a friend makes you a priority. A friend is a person who can advice you without being partial. Friendship is the only relationship without any expectation.
 So atleast now, I am able to reach the conclusion for this post if not in my decision making process. Just talk to a friend in the most complex of the situations and you will find the solution easily. This is what I call the magic of a phone call.

Debugging my own thoughts

Sometimes you become the slaves of your own thoughts. You are not able to understand the complexity of them. You do some unsuccessful efforts to sort them. You need to be calm and composed for this. You try to control your own emotions but then you fail. At least in my case, I am not able to control my emotions at this point of time.
Then I feel, what if I was able to debug my own thoughts. Life would be so easy. By putting some break points, and adding some watches, I will be able to have a complete control on my thoughts and emotions.
While writing or debugging a code, we atleast know the output. But then at this point of time, I don't know where my thoughts want me to go. I wish, I was able to comment some of my thoughts, like the lines of code and achieve the output I want. I wish I could use a continue, and skip some of the thoughts. 
I am trying my best to reduce the complexity of them and unable to find the best possible way. Hopefully I will be able to achieve what I want.

From MH 12 CW 2570 to MH12 KW 4618

It's a long journey from my scooty pep to wego. It's almost nine years.
I still remember the day, when my dad purchased a scooty pep for me after I passed my 12th standard exams. I was a very shy girl who was even afraid of riding a bicycle on crowded Pune streets. But then I decided. I was very determined. Dad helped me a lot during my learning process. Hats off to him for that. After having my license I just decided and took my scooty to the over crowded J.M. Road.  And I was the happiest person in this world. I liked the ride and I was a successful rider. I felt like l just won a big battle.
That was just the beginning of an era. My scooty has given me happiness of riding in the night. It irritated me sometimes with flat tires. But she was a great support system, during my college as well as office days. I will always adore her as my first ride and I am emotionally attached to her.
But then, as it is more than eight years old  it was time to move on. She was giving me much trouble but then I was not complaining. She was my first love afterall. ;-)
I started looking for options. Dad enquired about various options. After asking few of my friends, I decided to buy Tvs Wego. We went to the showroom. We finalised a black one. I got the delivery on friday and it was a different joy altogether. It was my first prized possession afterall. And then, I went for a ride,a long ride. I bought a cake for my friend`s birthday and enjoyed my ride in the night with cool breeze teasing me.
It was an awesome experience and it changed my mood totally. I was totally charged up for the coming week.